Hi Language Buddy!

I'm back again to continue our conversation around the language dance we often encounter while living or visiting another country. This time, we're turning the tables and taking a look at situations when you, as the language learner, might be put on the spot.

Now, if you've ever visited a foreign country with the goal of speaking the local language, you might have faced this scenario: you start a conversation in the local language, and the moment they detect you're a native English speaker, they switch to English. This can feel disheartening, and honestly, it used to get under my skin.

It feels like an unwanted reminder that your foreign language skills may not be up to par. Or worse, it can feel as though the person you're speaking to is making it harder for you to integrate into their society by not letting you practice the language you've worked so hard to learn. It's important to remember that most people aren't doing this intentionally or with malice. In fact, many might not have had the chance to visit an English-speaking country and just want to practice their English.

But, in the spirit of sticking up for ourselves as language learners, I've discovered a few handy tactics. The first piece of advice is simple: continue speaking in the local language, regardless of their switch to English. This can signal your preference and might encourage them to switch back. If they persist in speaking English, it's up to you whether you want to escalate the linguistic battle.

The second piece of advice is more direct: if you're not feeling particularly inclined to just default to English, simply express how important it is for you to speak their language. A simple, "Is it okay if we continue in Dutch?" (or whatever language you're trying to practice), can go a long way. Be open, be honest, and often, people will appreciate your efforts and revert back to the local language.

Now, if you're feeling charitable and don't mind speaking English, by all means, do so. It's not about always picking a fight or sticking up for ourselves on every occasion. But, standing your ground linguistically is an important skill to develop, especially when you've worked hard to learn a new language.

Remember, the most important thing is to stand up for yourself and your language learning journey. You're not alone in these struggles. All of us have faced them, and together, we can support one another and keep the conversation going. Happy language learning!