Hi Language Buddy!

I'd like to delve a bit deeper into a topic I touched upon in a previous post, specifically about the importance of making mistakes in language learning. We've established that making errors, fumbling, and stumbling over words are all crucial parts of the process. Not only that, but these little mishaps can be quite endearing to your listeners!

Continuing on that train of thought, I find that the most successful language learners are those who can laugh at themselves. And no, I don't mean laughing in a self-deprecating or mocking way. I'm talking about folks who don't take their mistakes too seriously, who understand that it's all part of the learning journey. This applies to all learning processes, whether it's learning a new language or starting a job in a new field.

Let's take a moment to discuss a phrase you've probably heard quite often: "Fake it till you make it." I can't stand this saying. It suggests that you should pretend to have a certain level of skill or knowledge that you don't actually possess. I've seen this happen with individuals just starting in software companies or working in customer service. They overcompensate or attempt to use a higher vocabulary than what they're comfortable with. But let's make one thing clear: you don't need to do this.

A controversial point here, but I'll go ahead and say it: when I hear someone use the word "utilize" instead of "use," it feels like they're trying too hard to impress. It's as if they're setting off loud fireworks without any beautiful colors - lots of noise but no substance. The key to successful communication, in English or any language, lies in being authentic and comfortable with your vocabulary and language usage.

So here's a valuable piece of advice: don't try too hard. Laugh at yourself, embrace your mistakes, and avoid overcompensating. Discard the "fake it till you make it" mantra. The truly successful learners are those who aren't afraid to ask seemingly stupid questions or to show their current language level, however elementary it may be.

In the journey of language learning, authenticity will take you far. Represent yourself truthfully, lean into your current skill level, and grow from there. Remember, it's not about pretending to be someone you're not; it's about being comfortable with who you are right now and having the determination to improve.

Until next time, keep your spirits high, embrace your mistakes, and enjoy the journey. Happy language learning!